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  • Writer: Matthew Powers
    Matthew Powers
  • Nov 18, 2024
  • 4 min read

Marriage is a partnership, a lifelong journey where you and your spouse navigate the highs and lows of life together. But amidst the responsibilities, challenges, and routines, it’s crucial to prioritize one often-overlooked ingredient for a happy marriage: fun.

Having fun with your spouse isn’t just about enjoying the good times; it’s about creating a bond that withstands the tough ones. Laughter, play, and shared joy bring life to your marriage and deepen your connection. Here’s how you can make fun a priority in your relationship.

1. Remember What Brought You Together

Think back to the early days of your relationship. What did you enjoy doing together? Was it going on spontaneous road trips, dancing, or just sitting and laughing over coffee? Revisit those activities and rediscover what sparked joy in your relationship.

Try This: Plan a “nostalgia date” where you recreate your first date or any memorable moment from when you first met.

2. Be Playful

Playfulness isn’t just for kids; it’s essential for adults, too. Tease each other lovingly, share inside jokes, or have a silly game night. Being playful lightens the mood and reminds you to not take life—or each other—too seriously.

Try This: Host a board game or card game night, just the two of you. Add a playful wager to make it interesting (like the loser has to cook dinner).

3. Explore New Adventures Together

Routine can dull even the strongest relationships. Break out of the monotony by trying something new together. Whether it’s a cooking class, hiking a new trail, or traveling to an unfamiliar destination, exploring together creates exciting memories and strengthens your bond.

Try This: Create a “bucket list” of things you both want to do. Commit to checking one off each month.

4. Laugh Often

Laughter truly is the best medicine—and it’s a marriage booster, too. Watch a comedy show, swap funny stories, or just let go and laugh at life’s little mishaps together. Shared laughter builds intimacy and helps you weather the tough times.

Try This: Have a “funny movie marathon” or take turns sharing hilarious memes or videos you’ve come across.

5. Celebrate Small Wins

Not every day needs a grand adventure to be fun. Sometimes, the little things are what bring the most joy. Celebrate the small wins in life, whether it’s completing a home project, surviving a tough week, or simply making it through a long day.

Try This: When you hit a small milestone, toast with your favorite drinks or enjoy a special dessert together.

6. Unplug and Be Present

It’s hard to have fun if you’re constantly glued to your devices. Set aside time to unplug and give your full attention to each other. This shows your spouse that they’re your priority, creating space for meaningful connection and enjoyable moments.

Try This: Designate a “no phone” hour in the evening and spend that time talking, playing a game, or just being together.

7. Plan Surprise Moments

Who doesn’t love a little surprise? Plan something unexpected for your spouse—a date night, a thoughtful gift, or even a simple handwritten note. Surprises show your spouse that you’re thinking about them and add an element of excitement to your relationship.

Try This: Hide a sweet note in their bag, car, or anywhere they’ll find it unexpectedly. Add a fun invitation to an upcoming date night.

8. Don’t Forget Physical Fun

Physical touch is a key part of any marriage, and it can be fun too! Playful wrestling, dancing in the kitchen, or a tickle fight can bring laughter and connection. Don’t underestimate the power of touch in fostering joy.

Try This: Take a spontaneous dance break to your favorite song, even if it’s just for a few minutes in your living room.

9. Focus on the Positive

It’s easy to get caught up in life’s challenges and forget the good. Make an effort to focus on what’s going well in your marriage. Express gratitude for your spouse and remind yourself of their wonderful qualities.

Try This: End each day by sharing one thing you appreciated about each other. This simple practice can bring lightness and joy.

10. Make Fun a Habit

Fun doesn’t have to be reserved for weekends or special occasions. Look for ways to incorporate joy into your daily routine. Laugh over breakfast, share a funny moment from your day, or plan a quick evening stroll.

Try This: Create a weekly “fun night” tradition where you do something you both enjoy, whether it’s watching a favorite show, baking together, or taking a walk.

Conclusion: Keep Fun at the Forefront

A joyful marriage isn’t built in a day—it’s the result of countless small moments of connection, laughter, and shared fun. By intentionally making room for playfulness and joy, you’ll strengthen your relationship and create a marriage that’s as delightful as it is enduring.

So, go ahead—plan that surprise date, laugh until your sides hurt, and enjoy the journey of life with your favorite person. Marriage is better when it’s fun!



 
 
 

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